How To Pick The Best Maid of Honor

Choosing your Maid of Honor can be equally exciting and scary. It’s exciting because you’re planning such a monumental event and you want someone by your side who knows how to cheer you on and make you feel better when the wedding planning stress is taking over. However, it can be a scary process because you don’t want anyone’s feelings to get hurt if you didn’t choose them. If you’ve known forever who you want as your Maid of Honor, then you don’t have to read this, but if you’re like most brides who have no idea how or who to choose, then our advice will definitely benefit you!

Before we get started, let’s establish what your Maid of Honor’s responsibilites will be. Your Maid of Honor is in charge of planning your bridal shower and bachelorette party. They’ll also get the rest of the bridesmaids situated with their dresses and accessories, and make sure everyone is getting along. Of course, if your Maid of Honor is willing and you need more help, they can always join in on anything else!

Now that we’ve established your Maid of Honor’s duties, you have to make sure they have the time to plan two big events. Besides time, they also need to be financially well to pay for such events. If you have a Maid of Honor in mind, but know they don’t have the time or financial resources, perhaps sit them down and explain your thoughts. This way they can understand your thought process and won’t be hurt if you choose someone else. Or perhaps you can choose two Maid of Honors and they can split the time and money it takes to plan your bridal shower and bachelorette party. Take a look at some potential candidates we’ve listed to help you choose the best Maid of Honor.

1. SisterS

Choosing a sister as your Maid of Honor is always a great choice. It’s not only someone who’s grown up with you your entire life and knows you extremely well, but your girlfriends can’t get mad since it’s family. If you have more than one sister, it gets a bit trickier, but there are ways to get around the awkward situation of choosing. For example, if one of your sisters is married you can make her your Matron of Honor and your unwed sister can be your Maid of Honor. If you have multiple sister’s and none of them are married, then choose the sister who’s style matches yours the most. This way they can plan events that are totally your style! Make sure to sit all your sisters down so you can discuss your decision so no gets hurt. If you don’t get along with your sisters or don’t have any, no biggie, we have a few more candidates!

2. Your Best Friend Forever

Now, your best friend forever is someone who’s known you your entire life and has been there with you through all the up’s and down’s of life. This person is someone who you consider more of a sister than a best friend. They know you so well so they can accurately plan and decorate just the way you’d like! Not only are they your confidant, but they are super supportive and comforting. Trust us, you’ll need all the support and positive energies you can get as the planning process can get stressful. Most of us don’t have childhood best friends like this, but if you do, you’re very blessed!

3. friends

If you don’t have a sister, get along with your sister/s, or have a best friend forever, then choose a close friend! Look at your friend group and pick the one you’re most closes to. The one who you share secrets with, your go-to adventure buddy, and who embodies what a supportive friend should be like. Even if you haven’t known them a long time, but you know they always manage to brighten up your day whenever you guys hang out, then choose that person.!

Ultimate advice

As we said before, we know choosing a Maid of Honor can be scary because you’re afraid of hurting feelings. However, remember this is YOUR special day! Choose someone who you know will make the entire wedding experience an exciting, adventurous, and epic time! Someone who can plan a great party and is an awesome host! Lastly, choose someone who knows your style and vision well, so that they can perfectly bring it to life!

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Best Beachside Wedding Venues in Southern California

When Southern California comes to mind, instantly the beautiful beaches do too! The gorgeous ocean views, the stunning mountainous trials, the endless sunny days, and the cool evening breeze all come together to create the perfect day for any special occasion. If you have never considered getting married by the beach, think again. There is no better place to exchange wedding vows than overlooking the heavenly scenery that is the ocean and all of natures magical elements. Our live.love.create team has compiled a list of the best beachside wedding venues in Southern California that will surely take your breath away.

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1. Crystal Cove State Park, Laguna Beach

Crystal Cove State Park located in Laguna Beach has the most stunning beachside view in Southern California. The mountainous trials give access to a full panoramic view of Laguna Beach, providing you with a picture perfect backdrop that is sure to look beautiful in all your wedding photos. Exchanging vows surrounded by this scenic view is bound to create an intimate and romantic ambience.

Get inspired with Christine and Kory’s magical wedding ceremony overlooking Laguna Beach.

2. Wayfarers Church, Rancho Palos Verde

The architectural design of Wayfarers Church is breathtaking. The clear glass allows for a full panoramic view of the surrounding forest, mountains, and ocean. The green colored plants compliment the large wooded beams and seating columns perfectly, creating a magical and alluring view for your wedding guests to enjoy.

Hanaya and Darren’s wedding ceremony was truly dreamy here at Wayfarers Church.

3. Hotel Casa Del Mar, Santa Monica

Hotel Casa Del Mar is a luxurious hotel that gives direct access to Santa Monica beach and overlooks the famous Santa Monica Pier. The ballroom is painted a classic white color, so feel free to use any color patterns you’d like without fear of potential color clashing. The stunning chandeliers bring the room together perfectly inspiring an elegant and charming atmosphere. What better way to take beautiful wedding portraits than with the famous Santa Monica Pier in the background?

If you’re wondering what a wedding at Hotel Casa Del Mar looks like, get a detailed glimpse at Hanna and Andrew’s lovely wedding.

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The Most Unique Wedding Venues in Los Angeles

Finding the perfect wedding venue can be a daunting task to do since there are many great venue options in Los Angeles to choose from. But fear not, our live.love.create team is here to help! Over the last 10+ years, our team has planned numerous weddings that each hold a special place in our hearts. Knowing how difficult wedding venue shopping can get, our team compiled a list of the top 5 most unique wedding venues in Los Angeles to choose from. Enjoy!

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1. Millwick at the Marvimon in Downtown Los Angeles

One of the best unique wedding venues in Los Angeles is the Millwick at the Marvimon. The venue’s inspiration is urban jungle themed as it is filled with different kinds of plants, creating a beautiful green backdrop everywhere you look. The wooden pieces of furniture, rustic bric walls, and surrounding gold colors compliment the green scenery perfectly, inspiring a shabby chic oasis. The hidden sections found within the gardens are great for sneaking away with your newlywed to steal a few kisses. This venue creates a calm and serene ambience perfect for any wedding day.

If you’re wondering what a wedding at the Millwick looks like, take a look at these beautiful weddings our live.love.create team has planned over the years for Larry & Sandra, Cat & Phil, and Shannon & Adam.

2. Smogshoppe at the Marvimon in Culver City

Another unique wedding venue on our list is the Smogshoppe at the Marvimon located in Culver City. The outdoor section of the venue is filled with lots of beautiful green plants, creating the same urban jungle oasis as the venue we discussed before. However, the indoor section of the venue has a different style compared to the Millwick. The Grand Hall’s color scheme varies from reds, blacks, browns, and yellows, giving it a modern and classic style. The venue is perfect for creating an elegant and romantic ambience every couple wants on their wedding day.

Get a detailed look at what a wedding at the Smogshoppe looks like with these weddings our team planned for Charles & Sera, and Woormin & Johnny.

3. The Fig House in Downtown Los Angeles

The Fig House located in Downtown Los Angeles is the perfect wedding venue if you’re looking for something truly unique and artsy. The inside of the venue is painted a gorgeous teal color, with different abstract paintings by artist Amira D. Rahim hung beautifully along the walls. In the lounging area, each piece of furniture is a different color, making it a cool place for your wedding guests to take chic and stylish photos during cocktail hour. The Urban Garden located just outside the lounging area is where you'll be exchanging your wedding vows surrounded by beautifully decorated trees and that lovely Southern California breeze.

Take a look at Vanessa and Kevin’s beautiful wedding held at the Fig House earlier this year. Unfortunately, this was the last wedding our live.love.create team planned before the Covid-19 pandemic struck. Our team is maintaining at home quarantine orders, but we are still offering our wedding planning services via online. Helping couples plan their special day is truly a passion of ours and we continue to find ways to do our job while maintaining everyone’s safety.

4. Villa del Sol D’Oro in Sierra Madre

If your dream is to get married in Italy, Villa del Sol D’Oro is the perfect wedding venue for you, as it was originally built to resemble an Italian villa. Not only can you have your Italian inspired dream wedding, but you can have it beautifully done here in Los Angeles. The garden area surrounding the villa creates the ultimate romantic scene perfect for exchanging your wedding vows amongst your dearest family and friends. Your wedding guests will definitely feel they’ve been transported to another country.

If you’re wondering what a wedding at the Villa del Sol D’Oro looks like, take a look at Jessica and David’s dreamy wedding!

5. Carondelet House in Los Angeles

Another venue that resembles an Italian villa in Los Angeles is the Carondelet House. This venue differs from the previous one in that it is built entirely out of bricks and has a different architectural design. The small dining rooms, rustic brick walls, dim lighting, and brown wooded floors creates an intimate, romantic and love filled ambience that is sure to have your wedding guests thinking they’re in a real life fairytale.

Get inspired with Sam & Nancy and Christine & Dean’s beautiful weddings!

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